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“Who doesn’t need a coach?” is the question I am left pondering after attending this weekend’s conference, Coaching: A New Horizon – Theory, Emerging Evidence, & Practice. The two-day event brought together seminal theorists and practitioners to explore the intellectual and evidenced-based foundation for the emerging field of coaching psychology, an initiative designed to bridge from the ivory-tower of academic positive psychology to the profession of coaching […]
Today on the TED (technology, entertainment & design) website, I came across the same twenty minute Seligman presentation, which Kathryn Britton also referenced.
You can be unhappy any time, any place. Moreover, life without unhappiness would probably be unbearable for it would have no light and so shadow, no day and so night, no loss and so no real gain, no sorrow and so no real joy. It would be devoid of meaning. Discontent is the source of creativity, perhaps of creation.
How often have you heard someone boast that they had worked 70 hours last week? Were you impressed and envious or did you think the speaker was either exaggerating or inefficient? Why do some take pride in proving that their work is more effortful, difficult, or even painful than that of others? In too many cases, this need to feel indispensable comes at the expense of one’s health and happiness.