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	<title>Comments on: &#8220;Positive Abnormality&#8221; – Be a GENIUS by discovering your Speciality, Uniqueness, and Meaning</title>
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		<title>By: karen</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-31774</link>
		<dc:creator>karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 22:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>uhmm jjaj esta muy bonito esto pero no entiendo el ingles 
trcducelo en español,  siii

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>uhmm jjaj esta muy bonito esto pero no entiendo el ingles<br />
trcducelo en español,  siii</p>
<p>je</p>
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		<title>By: Kathryn Britton</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-15916</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathryn Britton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 18:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris Peterson recently wrote an op-ed piece about character strengths and political leaders.  

http://www.viacaucus.org/ChrisPetersonOpEd/tabid/160/Default.aspx

I think he makes some very good points.  Check it out -- and perhaps express your views in the survey:

http://www.viacaucus.org/

Kathryn 

PS Timothy - I was looking for a place to post this, and your article seemed the best match.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris Peterson recently wrote an op-ed piece about character strengths and political leaders.  </p>
<p><a href="http://www.viacaucus.org/ChrisPetersonOpEd/tabid/160/Default.aspx" rel="nofollow">http://www.viacaucus.org/ChrisPetersonOpEd/tabid/160/Default.aspx</a></p>
<p>I think he makes some very good points.  Check it out &#8212; and perhaps express your views in the survey:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.viacaucus.org/" rel="nofollow">http://www.viacaucus.org/</a></p>
<p>Kathryn </p>
<p>PS Timothy - I was looking for a place to post this, and your article seemed the best match.</p>
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		<title>By: What &#8220;Online Places&#8221; Do You Read On A Regular Basis? &#171; Fruitful Words</title>
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		<dc:creator>What &#8220;Online Places&#8221; Do You Read On A Regular Basis? &#171; Fruitful Words</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 13:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] read research-based articles about &#8220;the Science of happiness and positive psychology.&#8221; Read this one about Positive Abnormality: Be a Genius by Discovering your Specialty, Uniqueness and Meaning. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] read research-based articles about &#8220;the Science of happiness and positive psychology.&#8221; Read this one about Positive Abnormality: Be a Genius by Discovering your Specialty, Uniqueness and Meaning. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: 5 Management Zingers: Vol. 5 No. 6</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-14205</link>
		<dc:creator>5 Management Zingers: Vol. 5 No. 6</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2008 15:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] &#8220;Positive Abnormality&#8221; - Be a GENIUS by discovering your Speciality, Uniqueness, and Mea... is an article by Timothy So.  It is okay to be &#8220;abnormal&#8221; and strive to be a genius at work. Here is So&#8217;s points about being a genius and having social impact as a genius or a manager: And what does it take to become a genius? Gassandro and Simonton probably give the best definition of “genius” in their paper, “Creativity and genius” (2003): 1) A genius is someone who possesses unique or distinctly characteristic creative ideas or behaviors – uniqueness. 2) A genius is an individual with social impact – when the genius’ thoughts, idea, or products have a tremendous impact on the social environment, ranging from the other members of the individual’s field to the society as a whole. 3) A genius is someone who has a high quality of intellectual power where intellectual power or importance brings positive social impact. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] &#8220;Positive Abnormality&#8221; - Be a GENIUS by discovering your Speciality, Uniqueness, and Mea&#8230; is an article by Timothy So.  It is okay to be &#8220;abnormal&#8221; and strive to be a genius at work. Here is So&#8217;s points about being a genius and having social impact as a genius or a manager: And what does it take to become a genius? Gassandro and Simonton probably give the best definition of “genius” in their paper, “Creativity and genius” (2003): 1) A genius is someone who possesses unique or distinctly characteristic creative ideas or behaviors – uniqueness. 2) A genius is an individual with social impact – when the genius’ thoughts, idea, or products have a tremendous impact on the social environment, ranging from the other members of the individual’s field to the society as a whole. 3) A genius is someone who has a high quality of intellectual power where intellectual power or importance brings positive social impact. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy So</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-14120</link>
		<dc:creator>Timothy So</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 20:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Scott, thanks for your sharing! 
 
I can't agree with you more on the "drivenness" of being a genius. What you have said demonstrates the pathway of being a genius – "drivenness", persistence, self-discipline and tons of hard work. If being a geniuses is a process like winning at a 100m race, my piece probably serves to build up one's beliefs and courage to register and take part in the game, to believe that they are more than enough to perform well or even win the race, and your ideas obviously focus on how they should prepare and the attributes needed to finish the race during the event! Thanks for offering and widening perspectives on geniuses!
 
Best, Timothy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scott, thanks for your sharing! </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t agree with you more on the &#8220;drivenness&#8221; of being a genius. What you have said demonstrates the pathway of being a genius – &#8220;drivenness&#8221;, persistence, self-discipline and tons of hard work. If being a geniuses is a process like winning at a 100m race, my piece probably serves to build up one&#8217;s beliefs and courage to register and take part in the game, to believe that they are more than enough to perform well or even win the race, and your ideas obviously focus on how they should prepare and the attributes needed to finish the race during the event! Thanks for offering and widening perspectives on geniuses!</p>
<p>Best, Timothy</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy So</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-14119</link>
		<dc:creator>Timothy So</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 20:29:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Winton! 

What a cool point suggesting a reciprocal relationship between uniqueness and self-esteem. People with high self-esteem are more comfortable with being at a deviant position. Uniqueness and self-esteem are dependent – it takes courage and confidence, which probably stems from positive feedback and recognition from parents, teachers and peers, to build up self-esteem. With a sense of self-worth, people believe that they are unique and make things done. 
 
And what you said also reminds me of a classical experiment I've learnt from your Social Psych. class few years ago in CUHK, Asch's (1956) conformity study on line judgment. I wonder if the belief of uniqueness could be used to explain why some people are daring enough to insist what they believe is true instead of following the majority who gave a wrong answer.
 
Thanks so much for your comment. I wish you a shining academic year teaching in CUHK!!

Best, Tim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Winton! </p>
<p>What a cool point suggesting a reciprocal relationship between uniqueness and self-esteem. People with high self-esteem are more comfortable with being at a deviant position. Uniqueness and self-esteem are dependent – it takes courage and confidence, which probably stems from positive feedback and recognition from parents, teachers and peers, to build up self-esteem. With a sense of self-worth, people believe that they are unique and make things done. </p>
<p>And what you said also reminds me of a classical experiment I&#8217;ve learnt from your Social Psych. class few years ago in CUHK, Asch&#8217;s (1956) conformity study on line judgment. I wonder if the belief of uniqueness could be used to explain why some people are daring enough to insist what they believe is true instead of following the majority who gave a wrong answer.</p>
<p>Thanks so much for your comment. I wish you a shining academic year teaching in CUHK!!</p>
<p>Best, Tim</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy So</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-14118</link>
		<dc:creator>Timothy So</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 20:27:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Christine - 

Thanks for sharing on your research. It's very inspiring! I can't tell how excited I am to see relevant studies on positive leaders. 

In your study, I am impressed by the possible contradictions between best student and best child, as well as your disproof of the myth of best student's pathway à best colleges à best jobs à money à happy for life. I particularly like your example of lawyers who are best paid and also most depressed. 

I think your whole piece is an incredible message to educators that they should let their students – the future productive citizens, even future leaders, know how to have a better life! Would you mind if I send around to my teacher friends?
 
I wonder if you've conducted any further research on the relationship between positive leaders and their childhood development. My main research interest (also my PhD research study which will start this Oct) is leadership in Professional Service Firms. Indeed there are many interesting questions about positive leadership in PSFs, like how to lead highly intellectual people in an environment of high stress and demand effectively; which leadership style is the best for employee well-being; why some leaders/partners can have better lead than others; and what are the core leader strengths and characters. These are all positive psychology related. Are leadership skills formed early in childhood or learnable after people started their career; and how would positive psychology shed light on better training and development on leadership? These are the exciting questions that are worth to be examined. 
 
Would be great if we can have further discussions on these interesting topics!

Again, thanks for your research sharing and great comment! 

Best, Timothy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Christine - </p>
<p>Thanks for sharing on your research. It&#8217;s very inspiring! I can&#8217;t tell how excited I am to see relevant studies on positive leaders. </p>
<p>In your study, I am impressed by the possible contradictions between best student and best child, as well as your disproof of the myth of best student&#8217;s pathway à best colleges à best jobs à money à happy for life. I particularly like your example of lawyers who are best paid and also most depressed. </p>
<p>I think your whole piece is an incredible message to educators that they should let their students – the future productive citizens, even future leaders, know how to have a better life! Would you mind if I send around to my teacher friends?</p>
<p>I wonder if you&#8217;ve conducted any further research on the relationship between positive leaders and their childhood development. My main research interest (also my PhD research study which will start this Oct) is leadership in Professional Service Firms. Indeed there are many interesting questions about positive leadership in PSFs, like how to lead highly intellectual people in an environment of high stress and demand effectively; which leadership style is the best for employee well-being; why some leaders/partners can have better lead than others; and what are the core leader strengths and characters. These are all positive psychology related. Are leadership skills formed early in childhood or learnable after people started their career; and how would positive psychology shed light on better training and development on leadership? These are the exciting questions that are worth to be examined. </p>
<p>Would be great if we can have further discussions on these interesting topics!</p>
<p>Again, thanks for your research sharing and great comment! </p>
<p>Best, Timothy</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-14095</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 11:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Timothy, 
Excellent call to embrace our "Positive Abnormality," using some very powerful examples. I enjoyed the focus on genius, and the concomitant call to recognize the genius each of us has. Additionally, one of the differential factors I've been studying as I look at greatness is the amazingly difficult work that these individuals undertake to make their genius come to the forefront. Perhaps this is why more people don't embrace their genius. It takes incredible discipline to be a genius, or be great. That's the part that seperates many of us from those that stand out. We are not willing, day after day, year after year, to put in the time. What we've not been able to identify is if this "drivenness" is genetic, or learned. That might unlock some more geniuses. 

Nicely done. Thanks. 
Scott (MAPP 08)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Timothy,<br />
Excellent call to embrace our &#8220;Positive Abnormality,&#8221; using some very powerful examples. I enjoyed the focus on genius, and the concomitant call to recognize the genius each of us has. Additionally, one of the differential factors I&#8217;ve been studying as I look at greatness is the amazingly difficult work that these individuals undertake to make their genius come to the forefront. Perhaps this is why more people don&#8217;t embrace their genius. It takes incredible discipline to be a genius, or be great. That&#8217;s the part that seperates many of us from those that stand out. We are not willing, day after day, year after year, to put in the time. What we&#8217;ve not been able to identify is if this &#8220;drivenness&#8221; is genetic, or learned. That might unlock some more geniuses. </p>
<p>Nicely done. Thanks.<br />
Scott (MAPP 08)</p>
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		<title>By: Winton</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-14083</link>
		<dc:creator>Winton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 02:43:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article, Timothy! And nice references!

You mentioned Snyder and Fromkin that striving for uniqueness would bring positive self-esteem. I wonder whether the reciprocal may also be important, i.e., a person with high self-esteem is more likely to pursue uniqueness. It takes courage and confidence to believe in oneself that i am doing a right, albeit dissimilar, thing. And again, as you said, it is a matter of perspective. And we just have to believe in ourselves to do the impossible but good things! 

Thanks again for your insightful article!

Winton</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article, Timothy! And nice references!</p>
<p>You mentioned Snyder and Fromkin that striving for uniqueness would bring positive self-esteem. I wonder whether the reciprocal may also be important, i.e., a person with high self-esteem is more likely to pursue uniqueness. It takes courage and confidence to believe in oneself that i am doing a right, albeit dissimilar, thing. And again, as you said, it is a matter of perspective. And we just have to believe in ourselves to do the impossible but good things! </p>
<p>Thanks again for your insightful article!</p>
<p>Winton</p>
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		<title>By: Christine Duvivier</title>
		<link>http://pos-psych.com/news/timothy-so/20080218636#comment-14074</link>
		<dc:creator>Christine Duvivier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 19:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Timothy,

Thank you for your inspirational article.  I couldn't agree with you more and I was fascinated to learn about some of the references you included.

Your last few questions relate to the work I am doing as a result of my positive psych research last year.  Specifically, I am speaking with parents and educators to help them understand the flaws in our current approach to education and the beauty in students who are not at the top of the class (including many world/scientific/corporate leaders).

If you have an interest, there's a self-running presentation on the web:  http://www.positiveleaders.org/appreciatingbeauty/appreciatingbeauty.html   [username and pw are both "bottom80"]

Thanks for raising the issue of genius in everyone!

Happy Year of the Rat,
Christine  (MAPP 07)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Timothy,</p>
<p>Thank you for your inspirational article.  I couldn&#8217;t agree with you more and I was fascinated to learn about some of the references you included.</p>
<p>Your last few questions relate to the work I am doing as a result of my positive psych research last year.  Specifically, I am speaking with parents and educators to help them understand the flaws in our current approach to education and the beauty in students who are not at the top of the class (including many world/scientific/corporate leaders).</p>
<p>If you have an interest, there&#8217;s a self-running presentation on the web:  <a href="http://www.positiveleaders.org/appreciatingbeauty/appreciatingbeauty.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.positiveleaders.org/appreciatingbeauty/appreciatingbeauty.html</a>   [username and pw are both &#8220;bottom80&#8243;]</p>
<p>Thanks for raising the issue of genius in everyone!</p>
<p>Happy Year of the Rat,<br />
Christine  (MAPP 07)</p>
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